Girls minds are confusing!!

Postby **shamanking343** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 6:10 am

this is embarrassing :red:

but how do you know when a girl likes you?? mean to you or nice, laugh dont know help me out!

Postby **ShiroiHikari** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 6:17 am

^_^; I wish I had a good answer for you.

Postby **supa dupa ninja** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 6:21 am

here is one thing to remember, when a girl likes you they usually give you the "look". when you try to look at them they usually don't want to have eye contact (if the girl we're talking about is the shy type).

well that's it for now, I'll give some advice laterish...

Postby **shooraijin** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 7:11 am

Ursula: "And never underestimate the importance of ... body language!!" :evil:

(sorry, couldn't resist

)

Postby **Azier the Swordsman** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 7:20 am

Girls minds are confusing!!

It took you 14 years to figure this out? :lol:

Postby **Mithrandir** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 7:32 am

I never did figure that one out. I got lucky with my former girlfriend. I just asked her one day, "So, do you think we could be more that just friends here, or what?" (OPV). She said, "Maybe." That was pretty much how it went.

PS: OK. So she's still my girl-friend, but I've since upgraded her to wife 1.0.

Postby **Shinja** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 8:38 am

body language eh, i had enough trouble with english language, thats never going to work. so shy girls dont like to look you in the eye eh, so how can you tell if they really just dont like you? that would really make sence though, i do look everybody in the eye, and i have been told it creeps them out.

Postby **shamanking343** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 9:47 am

no it took me 14 years to get enough courage to ask!! :lol:

well I think think is good advice

Postby **Taslin_Jewel** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:14 am

shamanking343 wrote:no it took me 14 years to get enough courage to ask!! well I think think is good advice

Some things are better asked straight from the source. Why not ask us whether we like you or not? It would be the easiest way to get a straight answer.
Now that I've put in my two cents, I have to say that this thread makes me a little uncorfortable.

Postby **inkhana** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:23 am

shamanking343 wrote:this is embarrassing but how do you know when a girl likes you?? mean to you or nice, laugh dont know help me out!

[color=darkgreen]Well...it would be rather hard to define a constant for each girl...^^]

Postby **Solid Ronin** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:35 am

Chris4150 wrote:It took you 14 years to figure this out?

I agree with Chris

as for my answer........................I have no time for such things

Postby **The Grammarian** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:38 am

Chris4150 wrote:It took you 14 years to figure this out?

It took me 17 years to figure that out. :forehead:

But then, I had no interest in exploring the question before then.

Postby **The Grammarian** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:40 am

Taslin_Jewel wrote:I have to say that this thread makes me a little uncorfortable.

If it's not too much to ask, I'm curious: Why is it making you uncomfortable?

Postby **Taslin_Jewel** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 10:48 am

The Grammarian wrote:If it's not too much to ask, I'm curious: Why is it making you uncomfortable?

Mainly because I'm female. :sweat:

No other reason.

Postby **CobaltAngel** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 12:06 pm

supa dupa ninja wrote:here is one thing to remember, when a girl likes you they usually give you the "look".

Uhm, actaully, the look is something girls give guys when they're being total morons. ^^;;;

Postby **Michael** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:20 pm

Girls minds are confusing, aunt's are even worse.

Postby **cbwing0** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:23 pm

Hey...don't knock "the look."

One of the best ways to tell whether or not someone likes you is when other people say, "I think so-and-so likes you," especially when you were thinking the same thing. Unbiased opinions always help.

You also have to take into account the personality of the girl. If she is just naturally more "flirty" than most, you could be mistaken about any body langauge, looks, etc. that she gives you. As a general rule, if she acts differently around you than around other people, that is a good sign.

Shinja wrote:i do look everybody in the eye, and i have been told it creeps them out.

If they can't meet your gaze, that is their problem, not yours.

Postby **uc pseudonym** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:27 pm

...I can't quite believe I'm reading this. Really.

No one here is going to be able to help you. Listen to what Inkhana said, though.

Postby **shamanking343** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:07 pm

k then thanks..can someone close this topic??

Postby **Spencer** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:14 pm

You could ask her friend. Or her friend's friend, or her friend's-friend's-friend. As long as someone who knows the girl in question really well tells you, I think you should get a good answer.

Postby **CobaltAngel** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:47 pm

*pssst* Girl's can be nasty liars. ^_~

Postby **Solid Ronin** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:50 pm

and dont forget about girl begin tricksy and false

Postby **Spencer** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:54 pm

CobaltAngel wrote:*pssst* Girl's can be nasty liars. ^_~

Precisely!

Girl who likes you: Hey, I like ::whisper whisper:: Don't tell, though.
Girl who likes you's friend: Right. Course not. We're homies.

5 minutes later.

Friend of girl who likes you: I wasn't supposed to tell anyone, but ::whisper:: likes ::whisper::
Your best friend's girlfriend: No way! I won't tell.

Your best friend's girlfriend: Hey, ::whisper:: likes ::whisper:: But don't tell him.
Best friend: Right.

Best friend: Dude, ::whisper:: likes you.
You: :brow:

Postby **Destroyer2000** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 3:56 pm

Heh heh....with women, there's really no way to tell.

Postby **DoMiNiQuE** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 4:03 pm

yep... we have our secret techniques... yup... :\ ..... mmmhmmm...... yeah..... thats right.. ....(secret)....

Postby **kirakira** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 4:10 pm

*lol*

As for the origional question....well, I think the best way is to just ask her. But then, of course, you might suffer rejection, mocking, etc. but then again mebbe not. You never know. not much help, sry. ^_^;

Postby **cbwing0** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 4:21 pm

[quote="kirakira"]As for the origional question....well, I think the best way is to just ask her. But then, of course, you might suffer rejection, mocking, etc. but then again mebbe not. You never know. not much help, sry. ^_^]
That's much easier said than done...if he could have just asked her, then he would have done it already.

It's better to get some insurance of a positive answer first, by asking others who know her, and talking with her about about others things (if you can manage it). This has the double purpose of getting information, and dropping the hint to the girl that you like her (note: girls are much more loyal to their friends than they are to you: use that to your advantage!).

Granted, it is simpler and easier to just ask her, but if you are that blunt, you might turn her off; or, if she is as scared as you, she might freak out and say no just for that reason. Not to mention the fact that it takes a great deal of courage of a kind that most people lack to just ask someone with not setup.

Postby **EireWolf** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 5:12 pm

Cephas wrote:Gringo society. Filipinos never get divorced! Well, legally they're not allowed to divorce. Yet I know some couples who would divorce if they weren't bound by legal/religious obligations.

Where did this come from? You do realize that OldPhil's post was tongue-in-cheek, right? He doesn't believe in divorce either. He knows that he will never need another "upgrade"... Wife 1.0 is already perfect. :angel:

In other words, it was said in jest... and in reference to a funny email that has gone around the internet several million times. If I didn't take offense to it (I, being Wife 1.0), neither should you.

Postby **EireWolf** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 5:15 pm

Oh yeah... To answer the original question... YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO BE DATING!!!!!

I'm totally serious about that... but for future reference, it depends on the girl. But this will get easier to figure out as you (and the girls) get older. Right now you're all confused by hormones raging out of control. Did that answer your question? :angel:

Postby **Mithrandir** » Tue Jan 13, 2004 5:21 pm

Cephas wrote:Filipinos never get divorced! Well, legally they're not allowed to divorce. Yet I know some couples who would divorce if they weren't bound by legal/religious obligations.

ABOUT THIS... Cheek contains a certain amount of tongue. Sorry if that was offensive. I have no problem if WIFE 1.0 is upgraded by the maker of WIFE software. I do not personally see any reason for improvement, but if the manufacuture wants to upgrage the software, I wlll not stand in his way.

TRANSLATION: IF GOD THINKS MY WIFE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING I'M NOT IN FAVORE OF, HE CAN DO IT. HE DOES NOT NEED MY APPROVAL.

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