Well. You kinda wanted a solution that didn't entail totally stopping the downloading of anime for free. I can't offer that. Some people have given suggestions which I think are helpful, and if you're going to continue downloading anime, then you ought to follow those.
I have said before and will say again (without trying to get this thread locked or start a debate), that I believe that piracy = stealing = the breaking of the 8th commandment
(Exodus 20, NIV).
I do understand that there are a lot of nuances to this, but I also assert that there are many good reasons NOT to download your anime for free off the 'net. This is my conviction (the Holy Spirit's work ultimately I believe), but I know what it's like to be on the other side as well. I was a rabid pirate for a very long time.
I'm just throwing that out there as a solution to your problem. Will it solve every issue that comes along in terms of content? Admittedly no. But it will cut down tremendously on the kinds of things that you see, since if you obtain your anime in a perfectly legal fashion, you will hopefully always see what's coming before you watch.
By the way...if you have
ANYTHING to say in defense of downloading such anime, please,
PLEASE PM me with it. I don't want to start an argument here. I'm merely stating my opinion and doing it in a (hopefully) respectful fashion that won't lead to this thread getting locked. I
DON'T want a repeat of seemingly every other thread on the topic. There have been two threads now where I've posted something on this topic (one post was particularly thoughtful - I poured over an hour into it), and both of them have been locked (with one of them being not only locked, but made invisible to searches by a user of my privileges).
I bear no grudge over the decisions of the staff for what they did, as these threads just plain got out of hand. I am saddened, though, by the fact that I did not save my post from that thread, as I cannot just PM that to any interested parties.
Just consider those examples proof enough that a thread on a topic like this can be closed very quickly when one or two people get out of hand, so
please try to prevent that from happening.
As I said before, if you are interested more in my position,
PM me for it and I can expand on it in private. Thanks people for tolerating my going off-topic a little, but I did want to throw that out there to FadedOne as a possible solution to her problem. I pray that she (and many of you who struggle with issues related to what kind content in anime is acceptable) will find your own convictions through much prayer, and that you will please God in doing so. I'm convinced that by already asking the question, and having a heart to seek God's will in this area, that you are on your way. God bless you all.