No link here
PostPosted: Sun Dec 07, 2003 12:49 am
Well, there is something that every guy should know, and I found a good website on this issue, but because of the name, I can't link it here...
The issues of integrity and purity are things that can't be dealt with "delicately" because the other side isn't delicate in the least... It's very in-your-face and there is a website that deals with this, and it's the "sheep in wolves clothing" being featured on "Martin Sergent's Unscrewed"
For anyone who has TechTV, you know what kind of crap usually ends up on that show... It's all about the undercurrent of the net and technology... The low brow, the dirty, the wrong... It's the sorts of people that watch this show, who I'm sure many Christians are in that group, who need to get that message... When I first heard the name of their web site, I was totally shocked... I flipped by Martin's show when he was interviewing them, and found that Martin's hook was quite off, and that's a good thing... A good thing he used the hook like that, because I'm sure it got the attention of a lot of people who needed to watch this particular episode of Martin's show.
This website is very on target. It takes no prisoners and doesn't care about offending the people who get a wrong idea about it, because they only care about the millions of Christian men who are addicted to pornography and lust.
I'm going to sign up for their accountability software, and if any guys want this, you can PM me (sorry, girls, this site won't help you much... Someone needs to make a version for Women, since women are at least half as likely as men to get involved in this stuff)... It's a very important thing, and just as I'm sad to have this problem among christians and in me, I'm sad that I'm unable to talk about it openly...
Even when I memorize ideas or verses, I never remember where they came from, so forgive that, but in James it says to confess your sins one to another, and I believe it should be an every day thing, if possible... Also, if someone's confessing to you, you need to support them in stopping their sin, not aid in them commiting the sin...
If you stay in "the razor light" (a great song by Waterdeep, by the way) it's not going to be as easy for you to screw up as it is when you stay in the dark... Don't love the dark! Walk in the light, letting your darkest moments get out in the open and continually letting your life flow... Let your life be an open book! Don't hold on to secret sins! They'll destroy your life! Secrecy is suicide spiritually...
Also, I hope that for those of you who haven't had this problem, please don't be passing judgement... The Church's desire to keep itself squeaky clean is what has helped it get so dirty... Everything is done in secret, there's no accountability, people do their own thing and it's nobody's business... This issue really needs to be dealt with because it's destroying us... It's destroying me... My life is getting destroyed by secrecy...
EDIT: Sorry, I guess there is some stuff in here for women too... Hmm... This one is really important, there are so many people with problems in this line right now, it's important we all work to stop it...
The issues of integrity and purity are things that can't be dealt with "delicately" because the other side isn't delicate in the least... It's very in-your-face and there is a website that deals with this, and it's the "sheep in wolves clothing" being featured on "Martin Sergent's Unscrewed"
For anyone who has TechTV, you know what kind of crap usually ends up on that show... It's all about the undercurrent of the net and technology... The low brow, the dirty, the wrong... It's the sorts of people that watch this show, who I'm sure many Christians are in that group, who need to get that message... When I first heard the name of their web site, I was totally shocked... I flipped by Martin's show when he was interviewing them, and found that Martin's hook was quite off, and that's a good thing... A good thing he used the hook like that, because I'm sure it got the attention of a lot of people who needed to watch this particular episode of Martin's show.
This website is very on target. It takes no prisoners and doesn't care about offending the people who get a wrong idea about it, because they only care about the millions of Christian men who are addicted to pornography and lust.
I'm going to sign up for their accountability software, and if any guys want this, you can PM me (sorry, girls, this site won't help you much... Someone needs to make a version for Women, since women are at least half as likely as men to get involved in this stuff)... It's a very important thing, and just as I'm sad to have this problem among christians and in me, I'm sad that I'm unable to talk about it openly...
Even when I memorize ideas or verses, I never remember where they came from, so forgive that, but in James it says to confess your sins one to another, and I believe it should be an every day thing, if possible... Also, if someone's confessing to you, you need to support them in stopping their sin, not aid in them commiting the sin...
If you stay in "the razor light" (a great song by Waterdeep, by the way) it's not going to be as easy for you to screw up as it is when you stay in the dark... Don't love the dark! Walk in the light, letting your darkest moments get out in the open and continually letting your life flow... Let your life be an open book! Don't hold on to secret sins! They'll destroy your life! Secrecy is suicide spiritually...
Also, I hope that for those of you who haven't had this problem, please don't be passing judgement... The Church's desire to keep itself squeaky clean is what has helped it get so dirty... Everything is done in secret, there's no accountability, people do their own thing and it's nobody's business... This issue really needs to be dealt with because it's destroying us... It's destroying me... My life is getting destroyed by secrecy...
EDIT: Sorry, I guess there is some stuff in here for women too... Hmm... This one is really important, there are so many people with problems in this line right now, it's important we all work to stop it...