Negativity and the "I Can't" Factor
PostPosted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 6:03 pm
Most of us are guilty of this.
Our excuse is "I'm just being realistic, is all". We want to ready ourselves for disappointments and failures.
The thing is, if we focus on these things, we lose sight of our goals and we begin to look around at the storm and waves around us instead of looking towards Jesus. We also begin to develop a sour attitude, which will probably lead to depression and darker roads (God Forbid).
Of course, there are some goals we have to consider before pursuing them and an alternative course of action (Plan Xs, Ys, and Zs). However, dwelling on the negative "what ifs" sets you up for self-induced failure.
Hello? Remember Philippians 4:13--I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Yeh. So if you're saying "Oh, I can never draw like that", "I'll never become a good writer", "I'll never finish a story", "I stink at everything", "I stink at witnessing", etc., think about that verse. We all have spiritual gifts.
It's like--hello, the Creator of the Universe has your back--if it is in His Will, that is.
Just a random thought. If this is a mess of confusion, I apologize--my mind's all over the place.
Our excuse is "I'm just being realistic, is all". We want to ready ourselves for disappointments and failures.
The thing is, if we focus on these things, we lose sight of our goals and we begin to look around at the storm and waves around us instead of looking towards Jesus. We also begin to develop a sour attitude, which will probably lead to depression and darker roads (God Forbid).
Of course, there are some goals we have to consider before pursuing them and an alternative course of action (Plan Xs, Ys, and Zs). However, dwelling on the negative "what ifs" sets you up for self-induced failure.
Hello? Remember Philippians 4:13--I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Yeh. So if you're saying "Oh, I can never draw like that", "I'll never become a good writer", "I'll never finish a story", "I stink at everything", "I stink at witnessing", etc., think about that verse. We all have spiritual gifts.
It's like--hello, the Creator of the Universe has your back--if it is in His Will, that is.
Just a random thought. If this is a mess of confusion, I apologize--my mind's all over the place.