"when good things happen to bad people"
PostPosted: Tue May 30, 2006 1:06 pm
We all have heard of the popular questionable phrase "why does bad things happen to good people? (vice-versa)" and it's one that IS a hard question to answer, but being a Christian and all I guess the answer would be something like "Although it seems those things happen happen in THIS life, there's no telling what may happen in the next life..." or somethign along those lines^^ Anyways, my questin here is asking for scripture refering to such things. I'll give a bit of a background to describe what's going on...
Ok, my parents are divorced and it seems like my dad is getting the best of life out of the deal. He has a girlfriend and after selling property by a lake (which I had so many childhood memories at), they now spend their time travelling. He's retired, she hardly works. Every time I talk to him now it's always stories of his latest cruise or trip to Mexico (which happens quite literally every couple of weeks!) which makes me mad, upset, and sometimes even to the point of disgust, knowing that I've always wanted to travel, but money can be hard to come by for trips nowadays, and hearing about all these boastful adventures all the time. I've hardly traveled a hair around the planet but I so wish I could :/ I mean, I'm Christian and my mom is... well possibly is (not sure exactly on her faith and stuff) but I know my dad isn't and his g/f is some "other religion". So, after a childhood of him always being away on weekends and trips even then, he's having the time of his LIFE going on trips with his g/f all the time and my mom and I, with his depts :/ Basically he was hardly there for the family for basically my whole life anyhow. Yeah, it's no fun and makes me mad too (naturally...)
So in the relating the story to the topic, can anyone help me find some good reassuring scriptures on the stuff I'm getting at? It's hard to deal with sometimes so something a Bible can help you out with...
Ok, my parents are divorced and it seems like my dad is getting the best of life out of the deal. He has a girlfriend and after selling property by a lake (which I had so many childhood memories at), they now spend their time travelling. He's retired, she hardly works. Every time I talk to him now it's always stories of his latest cruise or trip to Mexico (which happens quite literally every couple of weeks!) which makes me mad, upset, and sometimes even to the point of disgust, knowing that I've always wanted to travel, but money can be hard to come by for trips nowadays, and hearing about all these boastful adventures all the time. I've hardly traveled a hair around the planet but I so wish I could :/ I mean, I'm Christian and my mom is... well possibly is (not sure exactly on her faith and stuff) but I know my dad isn't and his g/f is some "other religion". So, after a childhood of him always being away on weekends and trips even then, he's having the time of his LIFE going on trips with his g/f all the time and my mom and I, with his depts :/ Basically he was hardly there for the family for basically my whole life anyhow. Yeah, it's no fun and makes me mad too (naturally...)
So in the relating the story to the topic, can anyone help me find some good reassuring scriptures on the stuff I'm getting at? It's hard to deal with sometimes so something a Bible can help you out with...