junomoule (post: 1485983) wrote:Eeh. Eeeeh... Awkward subject. English is sort of a second language for me. I was born hard of hearing, see?
Hard to say where one language begins and the other ends, but they are related to one another. No one came before the other, but English is my primary language. American Sign Language [abbreviated ASL] is my secondary language.
As soon as my mom learned I had hearing that could be salvaged it was all emphasis on spoken English! Adapted to English because it's much more practical to use, but picking up on things like syntax and the fine art of pronunciation was a bear growing up. Still mispronounce lots of words. I do much better with written and visual language.
I don't actually think in language so much as I think in pictures, which makes a lot of what comes out of my mouth disjointed and silly. My sign language is actually somewhat out of practice these days, but I regularly think, count, and "babble" in it [mostly finger spelling]. Got to take some formal courses in ASL for high school to meet the foreign language requirement, helped me remember lots- toss me back into the language and I pick up on it in no time!
I have a friend at work that is hard of hearing. In the beginning of her life she didnt have hearing aids. Now she does. ^^ She doesnt always hear all of what you say even with the hearing aids, but she can read your lips. When she cant hear me, I turn to her and talk to her. This is so she can see what Im saying.(No I dont speak slowly or over unnunciate(sp). She hates that.lol) I believe she can use sign language.(I cant.:/) She also has trouble saying some words. I sure love her. She is a hard worker and a good friend.